Is it a fashion faux pas to look at shoes before you choose a dress?

http://www.stevemadden.com/item.aspx?id=49716&path=|womens shoes|womens dress|all dress|

The color scheme is lavender...

And the dress shopping date has been set. The retail location has yet to be announced, but a good bridesmaid does due diligence.

So I went to davidsbridal.com

Lilac/orchid/aubergine/lapis/magenta/wild orchid/wisteria/victorian lilac--which one of these colors will I be? Tune in to find out in early February...